The following article is from our new Inspire guest writer.
It is natural for men of all ages to want to be more attractive to the opposite sex and it is of course no different here in Thailand. Below are a few ideas that can help you to achieve your goal.
1. Good Personal Hygiene
It should go without saying but it surprising how many people do not pay attention to their personal hygiene. We are living in a hot, humid climate so regular showers are a necessity as is a good deodorant. Don’t forget regular showers and regular grooming and you are well on the way to being more attractive!
2. Be a Gentleman
It doesn’t matter what culture you are from, all ladies appreciate a gentleman. Small things like opening doors and listening to her will make her appreciate you more.
3. Make Her Laugh
A sense of humour always goes a long way. You don’t have to be a stand up comedian (which in itself maybe off putting!) but a little relaxed, light hearted humour will make both of you happier. If you can achieve this you have nearly cracked it!
4. Be Patient
Remember your dream Thai lady will probably not be fluent in English or fully understand the differences in culture. She will want to make you happy as well as better herself. She will be trying very hard with something that will not be easy so be patient with her and help her where you can!
5. Remember her Family
The family is one of the most important things in Thai life and it is important that you remember this. She will most likely need to send money to her family on a monthly basis. Complaining about this will only alienate you so try and understand and be supportive. If you can do this she will be putty in your hands!
Others that just missed the cut:
1. Eat Spicy Thai Food and Som Tam – You should show no pain in your eyes and say ‘Aloy Aloy’ (tastes good) after each mouthful.
2. Base everything you do in life on fun